The Art of Manhood: Embracing the Journey of Becoming a Man
Introduction
Welcome to the journey of manhood! Being a man is not just about physical attributes or conforming to societal stereotypes. It’s about embracing personal growth, responsibility, and cultivating meaningful relationships. In this blog post, we will explore some key aspects that can help you become a well-rounded individual.
1. Understand what is feminine
Being feminine means being: dishonest (manipulative), short term thinking, drama seeking and chaotic. As manly as some guys look, they’re quite often actually in their feminine, living in a world of chaos, drama and manipulation created by women who are created the laws. This is especially true for men in jail and men in politics.
2. Understand what is masculine
Being a man means being honest, long term thinking, logical and coming from love, because women can’t do that. Men ‘can’ be infighting cats like women, but women cannot be long term thinking logical loving beings like men can.
3. Pursue Performance, not ego & Image
In the feminine realm all that matters is image, this can be seen in feminine countries and areas like Paris France, New York in the United States or Melbourne in Australia where people are rude, the women are promiscuous, the policies are insane, but they look pretty right? And so many men are going down the same path, getting fake teeth, tattoos and fake tans to ‘look’ like something when really there is no substance at all.
Chasing happiness and performance is masculine, chasing pleasure and ego is feminine. This means stop focussing on image. So as a man, you should not be like the ‘coder’ I knew who drove around in a prius and wore a hoody to ‘look’ like a coder, actually code. Focus on making awesome software pair this with find your god given talent, mentioned below and you are unstoppable.
So put away your phone, stop watching the news and stop being drawn into the image-driven, drama-seeking world that women love and instead go into the performance-driven world that is actually masculine.
6. Find God, let go of satan & your demons.
By god, I mean find your god given talents. I have met guys who are in $20m debt who have no job calling themselves a millionaires and guys who can’t code in any way calling themselves programmers among tonnes of other insanity in feminine countries, lying about who you are is common-place. Look at all the fake army uniforms these feminine countries wear, that’s not an accident. ‘Being’ to them is basically putting on an army uniform and ‘playing’ army man, not being an army man.
So your goal now is to find what you are naturally good at and what comes easily. For me is writing and knowing this stuff. How? That’s where God comes in because I have no idea, I just sit and write and the truth just flows through me. How could Rodney Mullen create the kickflip? Or Neymar be as good as he is? Who knows, who cares. Just say it’s the universe or God or whatever and stop chasing something that isn’t withing your actual skillset and ‘God’ given talent.
4. Start telling the truth and seek the truth
Manipulation never works. Ever. Every time someone manipulates or lies they are always caught out eventually. It might not be today or tomorrow, but the truth always shines through. So stop being feminine and trying to get what you want by manipulating, finding shortcuts, getting debt or by any other means.
Start looking for the truth and stop buying into women’s manipulation, things like ‘data’. I can tell you, being in Australia from 2021-2022 there was not a -10% fall in property prices as almost all data I can find proports, my parents house went from $1m to $2m in that one year alone, which is a 100% increase and the rise of buyers agents and mortgage brokers and printing of money backs this.
How do you find this truth? Go to the source, yes, they have probably convinced you not to trust anyone so you probably don’t trust me, but go look up 10 job ads for your job in a country you are considering, then compare them to 10 in your own country, then go look up 10 houses similar to yours, check the advertised prices and recent sold prices. This will give you the real ‘GDP per capita’ and real ‘average house price’.
5. Start living in the present
Meditation will help, but just start being in the now. With the property example above, who cares what will happen next year, who cares what happened last year. What are the prices now vs pay? What is the current trend? Are house prices going up and pay staying the same like Australia? Well, that’s bad. Are house prices going down and pay going up (like Japan), well that’s good.
But ignoring the trend completely and being even more present. You can have a Salary from Saudi Arabia for $150,000 per year and buy a house in Thailand for $150,000. So in 2 years, you could easily save up for a house, right now. Or even even more present. Rent in Thailand for a great one bedroom is $5000 per year and have a Qatari salary of $150,000. So you could be saving a good $125,000 per year, right now (written in December 2023). Whenever you are reading this, there will be discrepancies and upward & downward trends, you just need to find them.
7. Make a long term plan
A man takes responsibility for his actions and the impact they have on others. Own up to your mistakes, learn from them, and strive to do better. Be accountable for your commitments, whether it’s in your personal or professional life. By taking responsibility, you demonstrate integrity and earn the respect of those around you.
8. Be logical
Women cannot be logical. Why do you think the modern definition of masculine is having tattoos, being muscular, getting a career and being ‘independent’. Well first, the independence is delivered by the government through redistribution, but the other three women can do too, they can go to the gym, they can get tatoos and they can get a career. Notice how it’s not: be honest, be a leader, get rid of your ego, be performance and not image focussed? Because women cannot do these things at all and the things they literally can’t do is the difference between men and women, not the image which they are trying to change the definition to.
So be logical with your life. Live somewhere where the average pay is $150,000 per year and houses are $500,000 per year instead of $50,000 per year and $2,000,0000. Set your tinder to countries where the girls like you. Think 20-40 years ahead, not just: “what will I do on the weekend?”. Go somewhere like Japan or Taiwan where healthcare is actually free, not just on paper like Australia.
Conclusion – Enter the kingdom of heaven inside you
So to enter heaven, you become a ‘man’ which means coming from love and being logical and long term thinking, logical, honest and focussing on performance and not money. Happiness is earned by being a man. Not by constantly living in hell taking drugs, partying and being feminine. Women want you to bring them out of their hell, not be dragged into it as well. So be a man and become happy, then women will want to enter that kingdom with you. They can’t but at least they can taste it by proxy.